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Alejandra's avatar

What an extraordinary story you’ve shared. One of resilience, courage, and transformation. It holds such profound weight and beauty, reflecting the rawness of what it means to confront pain, unravel its hold, and emerge with clarity and strength. You are my new hero!

You’ve not just survived but thrived! Your commitment to breaking generational patterns for your children and your unrelenting pursuit of growth is such a testament of strength that it inspires me.

And the work you’ve done (re-raising yourself, finding peace with your past, and giving voice to your journey) is a gift to everyone fortunate enough to engage with your insights.

Thank you for sharing! Your strength and vulnerability are a powerful combination.

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Francesca Fartaj's avatar

You are MY hero. Thank you for your overwhelming support with such kindness, love, and warmth. I am so grateful.

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Rachel's avatar

Wowwwwwww. That takes my breath away! I am hugging the Whitney of the past and so proud of the Whitney of the present. 💝 You have a gift lady!

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Francesca Fartaj's avatar

Finally I get the Rachel seal of approval. I worked hard for that. Hopefully I can keep it. xoxo. Thank you for your love and support.

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Rachel's avatar

lol you always had my seal of approval, Mama! Wish you could see yourself through my eyes. 💕

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Mr. Jreft's avatar

I love what you wrote here. It’s my favorite so far. Absolutely beautiful! Thank you for sharing. ❤️❤️❤️

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Francesca Fartaj's avatar

Thank you! Big compliment. I am grateful for that reflection.

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Claire Smith's avatar

Wow. This was really good. I got goosebumps! Your vulnerability at disintegrating in front of your kids is huge, not just for them but for you. It’s life.

And then your steps to becoming 51. With growth comes strength and you have that in abundance. Thriving but still striving.

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Francesca Fartaj's avatar

Thank you Claire for witnessing me in my messiness over the decades and loving me still. 💕

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Lani's avatar

This was a poignantly beautiful piece. Thank you for sharing such a personal story. You are a brilliant writer and generous in your willingness to share for the betterment of others.I wish you and your family a much deserved peaceful and enriching holiday. Sending you a big virtual hug.

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Francesca Fartaj's avatar

Thank you Lani for that sweet and loving note. I’m so honored you are here! Happy, happy! Merry, merry, this holiday season. 😘

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Lola Ross's avatar

That must have been really tough for you to share. It takes courage to open up like that.

This was beautiful! Thank you for sharing with us.

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Francesca Fartaj's avatar

Thank you, Lola, for being here and for your support! 💕

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Bita manochehri kalantari's avatar

As always beautiful piece. Thank you so much for sharing. ♥️🫶🏻

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Francesca Fartaj's avatar

Thank you for being my biggest advocate since before the beginning.

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Kelly Gildea's avatar

A beautiful and vulnerable piece. I appreciate you and wish you'd go easier on yourself. With love, Kelly

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Francesca Fartaj's avatar

Thank you for the idea that perhaps I can ease up on myself. That notion feels so welcome after yesterday.

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Ruth Bracegirdle's avatar

❤️

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Carter James's avatar

Amazing piece. Such good writing.

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Mary Beth Sussmann's avatar

Whitney, thank you for sharing your personal story. We need more brave women like you to remind us that we are all human. Your beautiful writing and working to become the best version of yourself is amazing and inspiring. It’s beautiful that your children had a glimpse of another part of you, even if it felt messy.

I am stepping into a new version of myself and you are truly someone I will be channeling. I only met you a few times but your grace and compassion was shining bright.

From another woman who works to heal generational trauma…you are truly working miracles.

With ❤️

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