Wow. This is strong and powerful piece. Tough to read but necessary. It is making me feel, and remember, too much. I am sorry that you had these experiences. No one should
It was hard to write but necessary. Prior to researching I was not aware of the textbook signs of grooming. Now I am glad that I do know so that I can watch and also teach my own children.
There really is no such thing as "almost", in my opinion. A transgression did take place. This was a form of sexual assault. For an adult to make a child feel this way is emotionally abusive. Everything he said to them was meant to intimidate. To gain power. Thank god the older child had enough sense of self to be able to take back some power to protect them both.
This is what we must teach our children. Respect for their own instincts and a strong sense of bodily autonomy. ❤️
Wow! That’s a pretty heavy piece. And whoever said that we’ve all been in similar situations was right.. I’ve just never stop to think about it. In light of reading this I would definitely say almost is too far.
Also, the coach’s abuse started at I can’t afford to stay here!
Yes. Exactly. Horrible.
100%
The coach crossed the line of Almost. It was sexual abuse. Excellent article, thought provoking.
This is a great reflective piece. What is my duty in the face of almost?
Allow no excuses, validate & protect.
An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. - B.F
Wow. This is strong and powerful piece. Tough to read but necessary. It is making me feel, and remember, too much. I am sorry that you had these experiences. No one should
It was hard to write but necessary. Prior to researching I was not aware of the textbook signs of grooming. Now I am glad that I do know so that I can watch and also teach my own children.
It is sad that you have to teach your children about this.
I could not read any of the others, and had to do something else to get my mind off of it. It has stayed with me.
The article shook me to my core. Powerful piece. Thank you for sharing ❤️
It was a difficult one to write. Thanks for your support. Xoxo
As always very nicely written. But it is so sad and horrible. Thanks for sharing with us. 💕
There really is no such thing as "almost", in my opinion. A transgression did take place. This was a form of sexual assault. For an adult to make a child feel this way is emotionally abusive. Everything he said to them was meant to intimidate. To gain power. Thank god the older child had enough sense of self to be able to take back some power to protect them both.
This is what we must teach our children. Respect for their own instincts and a strong sense of bodily autonomy. ❤️
Very great point. Thank you for your insightful perspective. Your absolutely right.
Wow! That’s a pretty heavy piece. And whoever said that we’ve all been in similar situations was right.. I’ve just never stop to think about it. In light of reading this I would definitely say almost is too far.
Thank you for your thoughts and consideration on this James. Yes. Too far.
So eloquently said. The grey area of almost can be too much to handle ❤️
Very nicely written. Thanks for making us think about situations we have all been in.